Are you ready to stretch out the honeymoon period in your relationship? Discover the secrets to keeping the spark alive in your relationships and how to recapture the rapture in your relationships in today’s episode.

In this mind-blowing episode, we dive deep into the captivating world of love, relationships, and peak performance. Our guest, Jamie Wheal, is an absolute genius when it comes to understanding the human mind and how we can create beautiful, committed, long-term relationships. His book, “Recapture the Rapture,” explores the secrets to maintaining that honeymoon-like feeling in our relationships. He shares his fascinating insights on how we can keep that feeling of love alive in our relationships for a longer period of time.

Jamie’s expertise lies in peak performance and flow states, and he takes us on a journey into the neuroscience and physiology of optimum human functioning. He reveals how we can tune our bodies and brains to perform at our highest level, even in the most challenging and meaningful situations in life. As he delves deeper into the realm of peak performance, he uncovers two fascinating paths – sexy biohacking and nerdy kink. He explores the intersection of science, human potential, and sexuality, leaving us with a profound understanding of how these areas intertwine. 

Don’t miss out on this thought-provoking conversation that will challenge your beliefs and open your mind to new possibilities. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep the flame alive, this episode is a must-listen!


Key Takeaways:

[01:12] The future of sex

[04:10] Evolution and sexual arousal

[07:09] Trauma healing and connection

[10:02] Lust and attraction hormones

[14:05] Non-paternity in German population

[16:18] Hormonal birth control effects

[20:31] Creating a neurochemical cascade

[24:00] Cultivating sexual fitness

[26:18] Overcoming relationship challenges

[30:10] The Woman’s Clitoris

[33:00] 15 minutes of clitoral stimulation

[37:49] Secular Sabbath and body church

[39:47] Hormonal balance and supplementation

[43:10] Maximizing fertility for optimal intimacy

[46:43] Psychedelic love life exploration

[50:16] Delta wave activity

[54:21] Developing a sexual fitness practice

[57:25] Creating sex as art


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Memorable Quotes:

“And if we can teach them how to use them better, if we can give them permission and information to reclaim that part of themselves and flip the script from it being a source of so much pain, so much suffering, so much heartbreak, and so much trauma, and instead turn it to healing, inspiration, and connection, that would be a worthwhile project.” – Jamie Wheal

“Once you’re in that neurochemical state, magically, you feel lust. You feel attraction. You feel novelty. You can’t keep your hands off each other and everything is fresh and shiny again.” – Jamie Wheal

“That’s not personal. And we can reverse it. And we can reverse it by committing to sexuality as a practice and perfecting how to make love, how to actually prime the neurochemistry of the lust and the attraction that fired us up in the beginning.” – Jamie Wheal

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